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● The Family Table™ Private Family Experience · Four families at a time · Application required

A place for families to hear one another — and build what comes next.

What is your family building together?

The method behind this work · The Original Alicia Coaching MethodologySee → Believe → Align → Build → Become

The Family Table helps families hear one another, name what matters, and build practical agreements for how they want to live, communicate, and grow together.

The Family Table

The table is the practice space.

Language, agreements, and rhythm — built in the ordinary place.

The table is where families practice.

Cooking, talking, deciding together. The work is not a performance — it is the ordinary place where language, agreements, and rhythm actually get built.

Sample result · The Family Table™ Assessment

Your table isn’t broken. One leg may need strengthening.

Four questions gives you a visual read on your family table, the leg to start with, and the three bricks I would lay next. This is a sample so you know exactly what you get. It is free, instant, and no email is required to see it.

  • CommunicationDeveloping
  • Structure & AgreementsNeeds attention
  • Connection & RhythmDeveloping
  • DirectionStrong

Start here · Structure & Agreements

  1. Brick 01Write down three agreements
  2. Brick 02Name who carries what
  3. Brick 03One shared place
The Family Table™ Conversations · Free

Free conversation resources for hard family topics.

See the family. Name the misalignment. Build the proper table. Then practice, and return.

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  • Free resource

    Healthy Bodies — A Family Table Conversation

    How do I talk to my family about health without making my child feel like their body is the problem?

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What The Family Table is

Facilitated family communication, education, shared planning, and family-culture design — supported by coaching. It's for people who identify as family (however you define that) and want more understanding, structure, and intention in how you live together.

What it is not

The Family Table is not therapy, counseling, diagnosis, treatment, custody evaluation, or crisis care. It's unsuitable for the situations below, which are better served by licensed professionals or emergency services.

  • Active violence or safety risk
  • Active abuse allegations
  • Severe mental-health crisis
  • Custody disputes or evaluations
  • Active legal disputes
  • Situations requiring licensed treatment (therapy, psychiatry, addiction care)

If you or someone in your family is in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services (911 in the U.S.) or a crisis line such as 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).

The Private Family Experience

Four families at a time · Application required

Investment is discussed in the fit conversation, once you know what this is, whether it fits your family, and what the process looks like. No payment is collected with an application.

Delivered on Zoom from California (Pacific Time). Limited in-person facilitation is available by request with a custom quote that includes travel time, transportation, lodging, and related expenses. Includes up to six participants; larger family systems are custom-scoped.

Each experience is privately facilitated and customized to your family, which is why only four families are accepted at a time. Families are invited (voluntarily) to share experience feedback and, if they choose, a testimonial.

  • 0160-minute intake with adult decision-maker(s)
  • 02Two 90-minute facilitated family sessions on Zoom
  • 03Customized Family Table Summary
  • 04Shared agreements, responsibilities, and next practices
  • 0530-minute follow-up 30 days later
  • 06Limited between-session support by email
  • 07Invitation (voluntary) to share experience feedback
Apply

Apply for a Private Family Experience.

One adult decision-maker completes the application. Every application is read personally.

All family structures welcome. Share only what you're comfortable sharing.

Weekday evenings, weekend afternoons, etc.

Please do not share diagnoses or detailed sensitive histories on this application. If invited to intake, we'll discuss what's helpful to know in a more private setting. Confidentiality is treated with care; The Family Table is not covered by therapist-client or attorney-client privilege.